Posted in Adoption, Culture and Families, Parenting, tagged adoption, Austria, Chili, European Center for Law and Justice, European Court on Human Rights, France Catholique, Grégor Puppinck, Inter-American Commission on Human Rights, Karen Atala, LifeSiteNews.com, Wendy Wright, X and others vs Austria on September 24, 2012 |
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A few months ago, I blogged about Karen Atala -a Chilean judge- being restored in her
King Solomon’s justice
parental rights by the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights. Atala had been deprived of her rights to see her three daughters because she was involved in a lesbian relationship. Fortunately so for justice, the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights overruled the decisions of several Chilean Court as discriminatory.
Now check out what is on the plate of the European Court of human Rights in the case of X and others vs Austria. Once upon a time in Austria, there was an unmarried heterosexual couple who had a child, a boy. The couple separated, the mother got custody of the kid and the father would have visitation and pay child support. One day however, the mother started a new relationship with a woman.
That’s when problems started. The new couple gets greedy. The “new mother in law” wants to adopt the boy. Obviously, the child is not adoptable, since he has a father. For this to happen, the father has to renounce his parental rights and accept to never see him again. He does not want to. The couple asks the Austrian courts to strip the father from his parental rights, which would clear the way for the adoption of the boy. Austrian courts reject this claim. The couple then brings the case to the European Court of Human Rights, arguing that Austrian Courts had denied their rights to private life and have discriminated against them as a lesbian couple. Hearings are to start on October 3rd 2012.
It is not the right of a lesbian couple to adopt a child which is at stake here, it is its right to adopt this child. This couple seems to suffer from a very common disease nowadays: considering a child as a property, or a good rival in consumption, as economists would say: if I enjoy it, I prevent you from doing the same. Folks like these forget something crucial: what is inalienable is the link with each parent and the child and that of the child with each parent, not the property of the child, which does not exist.
May the spirit of Solomon be with the European Court of Human Rights!
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Posted in Culture and Families, Family Laws, Father Rights Movement, Justice and the judiciary, Uncategorized, tagged Bogotá, Chilean Supreme Court, discrimination for sexual orientation, Dominique Rodríguez Dalvard, El Espectador, El Tiempo, Emma de Ramón, father rights, gender-biased discrimination, Jaime López, Karen Atala, Larry Rohter, Natalia Herrera Durán, New York Times, TVN on September 3, 2011 |
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I was in Colombia the last two weeks of August. I could not help but notice that the Colombian press follows very closely Karen Atala’s case. To my knowledge, Atala’s story got barely more than a blurb in the New York Times in July, and that’s a pity; there are important issues at stake and its outcome in the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights might have important implications for custodial rights across the continent.
Karen Atala is Chilean. Until 2002, she was married to Jaime López, with whom she had three daughters. Then they separated and agreed that Atala would have the custody of the girls, with weekend visitations for the father. But the latter changed his mind when his ex-wife started a relation with a women, Emma de Ramón. The couple lived under the same roof with the girls. According to Natalia Herrera Durán (El Espectador, August 25) López reclaimed custody on the ground that “the sexual orientation of his ex-wife was putting the emotional development of the girls at risk,” and (why not?) the girls might get AIDS. López prevailed and in 2003, Atala lost the custody of the girls. After several appeals, the case ended up in the Chilean Supreme Court. Verdict -hang on-: “the mother has put his personal interest before those of the girls. The girls might be confused about their sexual role and suffer discrimination in the future.”
But -pardon my French- Karen Atala has balls. Also, she is a judge. That helps. She held steady while dragged in the mud by the Chilean press – which calls her “the lesbian judge”- and under pressure to give up on her workplace. According to Dominique Rodríguez Dalvard (El Tiempo, August 28) the experts that testified at the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights -whose sessions were held in Bogotá- asserted that “if Atala’s sexual conduct does not affect the living conditions of the girls, her sexual orientation is irrelevant.” One wonders why it did not occur to the Chilean Supreme Court.
Atala has argued in court that “being deprived of her girls has destroyed her identity and her personal dignity.” Gotcha! To all fathers living in the U.S. doomed to get second-rate custody of their kids in gender-biased family courts (and loose it if any accusation of wrong parenting, founded or not, is brought against them), Atala’s words strongly resonate. Thanks to her courage, we might learn that if national family laws and courts suck, there is hope for justice somewhere. We cross our fingers awaiting the verdict of the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights.
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