Posted in Child Support and Child Support Laws, Culture and Families, Family Laws, Gender Inequalities, Sanity in divorce, tagged ABC News, Capital in the Twenty First Century, Gabriel Aubry, Halle Berry, Judge Gordon, Los Angeles Superior Court, Thomas Piketty on June 23, 2014|
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Halle Berry (Photo ABC News)
Fact: Family courts bleed fathers to death as they force them to pay absurd percentages of their gross income for child support; if you have any doubt about it, just read the recent comments on this blog.
Fact: On May 30 of this year, the settlement between actress Halle Berry and her ex-boyfriend Gabriel Aubry was approved by Los Angeles Superior Court Judge Gordon. Berry will pay $16,000 a month in child support, or $192,000 a year to Aubry for their six-year old daughter. Let see: that’s almost enough to pay – each year !- the tuition for a four-year degree in the most expensive U.S. universities.
Some will see in this agreement a great victory for justice on the grounds that a woman – and a famous one- has to pay child support like the rest of us. I for one would not agree. I see a saddening consistency between the Berry-Aubry’s settlement and traditional child support policy for the commoners. The commoners, in their vast majority, are poor, and the poor being poor,are not supposed, according to family courts, to figure out how to make their kids happy. That’s why family courts are there for: Tell the poor chap what to do and squeeze the last dime out of him. On the other hand, family courts have no problem with rich folks, provided a privileged kid remains a privileged kid. Thank God, Halle Berry’s daughter will. These two parallel facets of paternalistic child support’s policy are always carried out in the name of the best interest of the child.
Fact: There is a Piketty mania going on in this country, but obviously family courts have not heard about it. This Piketty mania spreads from Thomas Piketty’s last book , Capital in the Twenty- First Century, which talks about a wealth inequality fever particularly acute in America. Nobody is saying that family courts are in the business of correcting for wealth inequalities. At least, they ought not help reproduce them, while stamping the seal of justice on absurd child support payments that secure a kid the standards of living he’s born with.
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Posted in All Kinds of Dads, Family Justice and the Media, Fat and Mean Family Industry, Father Rights Movement, Father Unfriendly Institutions, Fatherhood in the Media, Parental Alienation Syndrome, tagged Amine Baba-Ali, Benjamin Norman (New York Times), bill A 6457, Eastern New York Maximum Correction Facility, Michael Powell (New York Times), Napanoch (New York), New York State Attorney on June 4, 2014|
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Amine Baba-Ali (Photo B. Norman for the New York Times)
As a foreigner, there is something I always find troubling in this country, where I have lived for 23 years: Its prodigious ability to ignore horrors committed here, and move on. It’ s not like there is a deficit of compassion; it’s just that compassion does not seem to translate into acting on the very reasons that caused the horrors in the first place. It may be the omnipresence of the flag, the daily shots of sport news of any kind, and the
annoying belief that the future will be better (I have nothing per se against optimism, except that I want it to be awake, that is to be grounded into a reasonable assessment of things as they are).
Speaking of nightmares, check this one: Amine Baba- Ali was wrongfully convicted of raping his four-year old daughter in 1989 and sentenced to 20 years in prison. Where did the accusation come from? His ex-wife. Then the diligence of New York State Justice system did the rest: a phony physician found evidence of rape that was contested by several experts, to no avail. Amine Baba-Ali’s conviction was overturned after three years spent in jail. Since public officials were unapologetic about the ordeal he had endured, Baba-Ali sued, and the State attorney general agreed to pay $1.25 million.
Yet Amine Baba-Ali has not seen his daughter for 20 years. I challenge any accountant to put a price tag on that. Amine Baba-Ali hopes his daughter will see Michael Powell’s NYT article and contact him.
One of the many problems with current New York State Family laws is that lethal ex-wife accusations do not bear any consequences…for ex-wife. Ex-wife can send a man to death and kill his relations to his children in all impunity. The promoters of bill A6457 are kidding themselves and their constituents if they think that the fear of punishment for “malicious” accusations would deter ex-wife from making those.
But hey! I don’t need much to be convinced: I sign on the bill if just one “maliciously” intended ex-wife spends three years of her life, like Amine Ali-Baba, in Eastern New York maximum correction facility, in Napanoch, New York. It’s not the worst, according to a well-informed source.
Hat Tip: Mariana Carreño King
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