Comments for Fearless Fathers

Comment on What You Don’t Know About New York State Child Support Laws by Val

Val — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 17:47:40 +0000

Danielle,
I have to agree with you. I too am the CP. While the ex was living in the area, he had hit/miss visits, leaving the kids to be frustrated and angry, it seemed, mostly at me. I was getting about $60 a week for 4 kids. For all the NCP’s, please know this didn’t cover their food, laundry, any extra expenses, lights, internet, gas to take them to football practice or even church. He has since left the area, but still meddles in my business using the kids to see what I’m doing. The ex often looses his job prior to any attempt I make legally to have him be responsible. I resent the fact that I’m to be the CP, and bread winner, and workhorse for the kids, while the ex seems to sit in the corner like templeton the rat, sniveling and complaining at how hard his life is now (that I am not there to support him) that he lives with his mother in florida.

Comment on What You Don’t Know About New York State Child Support Laws by Val

Val — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 17:20:46 +0000

Anony- I know they can take 65% of your gross, it happened to my fiance in his childsupport. He was bringing home an empty check, virtually 10% to live on. When he questioned the NYS child support system, he was told, ‘well, people have been know to get by on that little’. While he paid his ex about 200 a week for one child, I have been getting about 90 a week for 3 kids. I pay ALL their expenses, clothes, food, shelter, gas to cart them around, etc. I’ve cut out all and any extra things, (cable,phone,internet). The ex has provided them a cheap phone so they can talk to him, and really when he does, he fill’s them with crap about me, and now, he has lost his job again, (did I say he lives in Fla, while I stayed here to keep the kids in their school in NY?), and is taking me to court to have his support dropped EVEN lower? If i can work 3-4 jobs to make ends meet on MY end, why can’t he keep ONE job to do his own duty?

Comment on Is Child Support Supporting Children or Well-Off Custodial Parents? by family member

family member — Sat, 15 Jun 2013 03:01:18 +0000

U bret newman r ut WORST enemy sherrys divorce did not get tossed.out of court becsuse of lies ur the liar u filed so much nonsense the judge put out an order that U could not file any more Of ur nonsense unless she ok d it because ur a nuisance to the court remember that letter from the judge??? What did victor n nedra townley state bret u lie n misconstrue almost everything!! Thats y u lost thousands of dollars. U cant stop reading this ???
Communication???

Comment on Happy Birthday Chloé! by Marie

Marie — Fri, 14 Jun 2013 07:16:22 +0000

Bon anniversaire, Chloé. Je t’embrasse . Marie , “your aunt from Dijon “.

Comment on Happy Birthday Chloé! by Laura Martínez ® (@miblogestublog)

Laura Martínez ® (@miblogestublog) — Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:11:34 +0000

Happy birthday, Chloé. I’m sure you are as beautiful – and wise – as when we met….

Comment on About by Evan

Evan — Wed, 12 Jun 2013 18:23:30 +0000

My ex-wife is suing me for an upward modification that she is not entitled to. Does anyone have to share a set of discovery demands that are good to use in NY?

Comment on What You Don’t Know About New York State Child Support Laws by mark

mark — Sun, 09 Jun 2013 20:41:52 +0000

I have a 14 year old and 13 year old who I have no parental rights to and also have a restraining order….back in 2009 I received a letter from cps that my ex had been charged with neglect I fought and won custody two months later my oldest son touch my youngest son that I have with my wife what I mean by touched is he molested him I called his therapist and his therapist removed him from the home not even a month later my now 13 year old touched my daughter who I have with my wife he was removed …I went to meeting to get them counseling to help them cause we found out their mother was molesting the oldest boy and he was molesting his brother while in the home with their mother so that where all the sexual abuse started …so now I fought in and out of court to get them help dss and cps said they were gonna get them help and for two years they never got help so now we are in the year 2011 im sittin in a meeting in dss with their lawyer and mine and cps and foster care …being told they been in foster care to long and need to come back into my home I said no cause the boys havnt received the help they needed and ther was no guarantee they wouldn’t act out sexually again so with me saying that I was told that they were going to file neglect against me and I would lose the kids I have with my wife unless I signed over all parental rights ..so I did …when in court the day I signed my rights over I got hit with the restraining order and now just three days ago in get a violation of support in the mail and have to be in court the 25th of this month ,,,I only wanted what was best for my oldest boys there mother is a screwup they are still in foster care separated and so is her daughter who she had with another man I don’t understand why they keep coming at me with the child support just leave me alone they gotwhat they wanted ,,,,me and my wife have three children and I have a 14 year old step daughter my wife works a a nursing home and im a stay at hom dad who had a mini stroke three years ago arthritis in my spine …I have nothing to give I need help

Comment on What You Don’t Know About New York State Child Support Laws by RL

RL — Sat, 08 Jun 2013 02:13:24 +0000

I answered my own question doing some research…

The Supreme Court basically deemed ‘contempt charges/punishments which impose a sentence of less than 180 days is not subject to the 6th Amendment ‘right to trial by jury’.

This is so that the courts are not bogged down with trial hearings, and allow the courts to basically ‘run smoother’.

So much for the idea of being heard by a group of normal people…

Comment on Domestic Violence Doesn’t Just Harm Women, but K Street Doesn’t Want to Know About It by Tara

Tara — Fri, 07 Jun 2013 16:06:21 +0000

@Thank you Curt – I am going to share this with my friends.

Comment on What You Don’t Know About New York State Child Support Laws by KATHRYN KURTZ

KATHRYN KURTZ — Thu, 06 Jun 2013 17:26:34 +0000

The problem with suing the courts for violation of our Constitutional rights is that the majority of judges are left-wing liberals who dpn’t believe in the Constiution and who want to spread the wealth. Like the IRS, extortion is the means to the end–individuals be damned!